This week in class we learned about dating and falling in love. It was interesting debate full of questions such as "Should a girl ask a guy out on a second date if she also asked him out on the first date?" General consensus was No. I learned that there is actually problems in marriage when a woman does all of the pursuing and the man does none.
I learned a few things in that class. I am supposed to share my insights here...
We talked about what we as couples do to diffuse arguments, it took me a while(long after class ended) to figure it out. My husband refuses to fight, that is how he diffuses tension, he doesn't put up with it. I end up arguing with myself getting frustrated and storming off to my computer and then my husband, after a short time, or a long time, depending on how peeved he has perceived me to be, IMs me. Usually something like "Hi honey" there are times we have been in the same room. And then we talk. Not verbally because I am still a veritable ticking-time-bomb.
I can also see that I am not so good at diffusing arguments, I usually start them.
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